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Candy Spelling Letter:Candy Spelling Blog

Candy Spelling Letter:Candy Spelling Blog – Candy Spelling letter to Tori Spelling can be read here.Candy Spelling wanted to blast her daughter Tori Spelling and her reality show Tori & Dean Home Sweet Hollywood so she sent the following open letter to TMZ :

TO: MIDDLE-AGED REALITY SHOW STARS (LIKE MY DAUGHTER)
FROM: CANDY SPELLING
I Know many middle-aged people have issues about their parents and their upbringing. I did. My memories didn’t match all those of my mother, and, funny thing, it’s the same way with my daughter.
Life has consequences. What you say is on the record. Other people have feelings. I have a vested interest in this subject. My daughter, Tori’s, two-part season finale revolves around my granddaughter’s first birthday party and how she has made what seems like an agonizing decision to invite me.
Cue music. Cue sideways glaces. Clue Lights.
I did get an invitation just in time for the RSVP deadline. I’m sure its delivery will be on next week’s episode with some comment about my house or driveway or street or something they won’t like. I wonder if that will be spread out over one part or two. Sigh.
A big party wasn’t how I envisioned meeting my granddaughter for the first time; but, hey, this is Hollywood, and my grandchildren have become reality show props, too. At the time I emailed “yes,” I didn’t realize I was being set up for a two-parter, even though it was clear I was being invited to be part of a segment for my daughter’s reality show.
Spoiler alert. Don’t read this if you plan to sit through an hour of people looking at their watches and saying “she’s late.” I decided my first meeting with my granddaughter should be on home video, not primetime cable; so I emailed that i would not be attending.
Back to other reality stars. My husband taught me that the plots have to be fresh and updated. The same old whining gets tired after a while. Enough complaining about what may or may not have happened during first grade or YMCA camp, or what vegetable you were forced to endure, especially when you are privileged enough to be on TV and get paid for it.
For all the reality show personalities, please remember that real life doesn’t get edited to make things better or worse or get better ratings. You’re responsible for what you do. Life isn’t just a show. And your families can’t just be props. Make your own season finale without creating conflicts you will regret later.

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    2. Kari Reitan says:

      Dear Candy,
      I recently read your book, “Stories from Candyland”, and found it charming.
      I am also a collector of cookbooks and especially appreciated the recipe for
      chicken and rice! Delish!
      As a lady who lost her dear Mom just two years ago, I sincerely hope you and
      Tori can become close once again. The mother daughter relationship is often
      fraught with issues, as was mine with my own dear Mom.
      In the last ten years of her life, we became close and I think it was due to
      my maturing, accepting that she would or could not change, which to my surprize she did! When I became more patient, less testy, and loving towards her, she in kind let her guard down and became more loving and trusting to me! I later went to grad school and got my Master’s degree in marriage and family therapy, a systemic and solution focused therapy. One tenet of this school is that in a troubled family relationship, if one member makes a change, the whole system changes for the better. This therapy can effect positive changes in just 4 to 10 sessions and is also called brief therapy. In the future, this may be something you could consider with Tori.
      God bless! Sincerely, Kari in Seattle

    3. dlb says:

      Candy, Candy, Candy it seems your daughter Tori is much more mature than you are. You state you don’t want to meet your granddaughter on their show but you don’t hesitate to write an OPEN letter to Tori on TMZ. I think having all of Aaron’s money has gone to your head! I also happen to think you are a very jealous mother and extremely immature acting. You set absolutely no example for you grand children what so ever! Regardless of what Tori has done for you to seemingly terminate your relationship with your only daughter proves you wanted all of Aarons money and then blamed Tori for his death. I personally think you need intense counseling as you are acting like a SPOILED BRAT!!!!!